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He ghoested me because he lied about his job :-), he knew I will find our

great video!

I just can't with the vocal fry and XXL penciled-in fauxbrows

He’s no longer interested. He said it. He slipped & it came out & he tried to back track. If a man puts in low to no effort even after he got you interested he’s planning on using you for your body. Don’t give these men sex until they start acting right

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Yes ❤️

Here's another way guys have of (silently) saying "I'm just not that into you".

To keep it simple, avoid sexual activities until you're married. It's a bit challenging at first but makes life so much easier in the end.

I wouldn't have anybody in my account like that I wouldn't allow that or have anything to do with me in my account or out of my account if that's it. I don't know what is wrong with any other men or whatever is going on with their mind or mindset but no man has been with me offline in a sexual way or relationship haven't dated or any of that offline for 18 years so what is that to do with recycling men when nobody's been with me for goodness sakes the whole state of Kansas I'm pretty sure with know about that any medical professionals or a lawyer attorneys in my account or out of my account professionals in and out of my account honestly if I had a printer of my own and a computer I would print out an agreement if there was to agree on with each other a paperwork of what Not to disclose or of a non-disclosure agreement privacy confidential to do with anything sexually or in any other way to do with the person. And that is not a damn relationship with someone if somebody else is telling me the person is going to give me signs and signs I need to know before they're going to cheat there wouldn't be no sexual relationship or any of that with the person offline or online if they can't even communicate properly offline or any of that. I'm not being mean for goodness sakes what kind of is going on with all that. I don't want to mess with somebody if there has to be a third party involved or if it's just to do with technology online RUclips and that's it like TF. 🧐🤨 And if that person who I thought it was partner cheated on me when I wasn't with messing with anybody offline or any of that they can just kindly screw off. Because the whole time I was making sure not to be sexual with another person considering it was 18 years of nobody else waiting for the right person I thought that's who was. As much as that pains me yes I did love the person very much very very much but I can't anymore knowing what I think I know now of being having to be told in so many various ways especially making me look stupid and feeling stupid to put in that much faith and trust in time in someone and energy with the person so that's why I kind of back up and reassess everything and if I run the other way things don't sound right who is in my account if somebody is not telling me who they are in my account right now how am I supposed to know. Does the person not realize or something if there's other people that it was screwing with my account in that way or what when I wasn't aware of wasn't messing with them in that way. I mean seriously wouldn't they know other ones were getting into my account that I wasn't aware of who else in that specific way. And especially considering somebody that was with their significant other their spouse or whatever that would have the audacity to ask me if I love them and this and that when they were with somebody else the entire time and I wasn't that's mentally and emotionally screwed up after I made that clear I wasn't messing with the person like that after finding out certain things in certain ways when I don't really know to do with somebody's relationship or any of that exactly and then having to find out from others because they don't tell me anything it's like don't mess with me like that if you were in a relationship or with somebody else and I wasn't like the f NO!!! NOT TO MENTION WHEN I HAVE MADE IT VERY CLEAR OF WHO I'M NOT MESSING WITH IN THAT WAY IT'S A MENTOR OR CONFIDANT OR A FRIEND OR AN ACQUAINTANCE OR LIKE A BROTHER OR YADA YADA YADA YADA LIKE I'M NOT BEING MEAN LIKE WHAT THE? AND IF IT SEEMS LIKE SOMEBODY'S COMMUNICATING WITH SOMEBODY ELSE TO DO WITH MY ACCOUNT IN MY ACCOUNT ARE YOU SERIOUS WHAT IN THE HECK. How is somebody going to act like that to do with my account to try to make out like I'm wrong or what's wrong with me what are you doing like in my in my account like that if you're communicating with somebody else to do with me or if it's out of my account that I I'm not there to defend myself would I know what's going on to do with the conversation with an unknown person I don't even know offline in that way I mean was there any agreement to do with the person offline know was there any conversation with somebody offline no. That don't mean I know you offline in that way? There hasn't been any other communication off of RUclips to do with anybody else in that way and no I don't mean other dudes from other states messaging me or contacting me on other apps that I don't even know unknown to me like are you serious I'm not going to respond to them. No I don't have a boyfriend that put me in credit card debt. I thought I made that clear with a person if there's no an agreement to do with a relationship offline to establish what is what to do with an agreement.

Have a great Birthday!

Don’t agree. Telling too much helps the psycho plan their attack based on your vulnerabilities.

This was great thanks Evan

He doesn't care because it's not important to the relationship. If you last, then maybe later on.

I always hear about the red flags but hearing about the green flags was great!!! Thank you!!

Happy Bday Evan🎉🎉

It works when the men provide and the woman stays home and takes care of the home. But men want 50/50, plus men want women to keep house clean, cook, be a wife, be a mom, give him sex.. at the end he turns around and cheats on wife with a girl that’s younger at the gym. He becomes distant and mean in the relationship to the point the woman ask for divorce, then blames the wife for leaving the marriage. I am a man, and that’s exactly what I did and that’s exactly what all the men I know have done. Women, do not get married. It’s a trap

It's very frustrating that I, aa a man with a secure attachment style, have only been able to find fellow secure attachment style women who had different life goals and non starters (such as me not wanting kids or them already having young kids), while the women who were avoidant seemed to have the same life goals and no non starters

This was super helpful, I follow you both and still it hit all the right spots. I struggle with attachment issues which makes me second-triple guess my own behaviors and have tolerated too much nonsense. Most recently a guy that I went on two dates with that seemingly wanted to communicate non-stop but never actually meet up. I don't want a text relationship and backed off/became less responsive because it felt like peddling water, but was wondering if I was the "bad guy" but really, we never got to the actual dating stage. (It's now been almost 8 months since I saw him in person without him making any attempt to see me.)

I am a gf of a man who isn’t even separated yet. She moved out 3.5 months ago, and they were married for 3 years, together for 7 (no kids involved thankfully.). Their relationship was toxic. But although he treats me well, calls me his gf, has great communication, he talks about her all the time to me, and makes me feel I’m not good enough, and that I’m the other woman because I can’t go over to his house anymore due to the potential of her coming by. I’ve been sad and depressed over it. He’s the only decent man I’ve met too; other guys I dated treated me badly or just didn’t want anything serious with me. At least this man wants to put his bad marriage behind him, and get married and have kids one day with someone. But I am just sad all the time. 😢

I love this background better Evan 🎉

You are very right about being unattached after sleeping with you.

She’s so right powerful lesdon

I could tell my boyfriend about my wonderful day and what experiences I’ve had and be so excited to share. And his response is usually “nice baby!” At the end of these interactions my mood usually drops. It’s the most heartbreaking thing

fear of a problem, my new boyfriend has been separated from his ex wife for over a year but is still supporting her financially and also hasn’t finalized the divorce yet. i suspect he’s playing with me while trying to get his money up so he can betray me in the end and try to go back to her…. im terrified 💔

I follow you both and this was an amazing podcast!! I took notes and saved the podcast to listen again and again..just in case I missed something..Thank you both so much!!❤

If women expect more out of men. They need to be more. Trying to teach average women that they deserve above average men is a recipe for them dying alone. This is just very basic stuff. Why do you trash men?

The "women" that commented against it are biological men pretending to be women.

Thank you! This really helped

Always appreciate your perspective, thank you Evan!

I wouldn't want an ex back after all ee are exes for a reason.

Sometimes, the kids especially the daughters are the jealous ones. Lol

Women need to realize there's often great guys out there hidden away by their shyness & anxiety that will never approach women. That's been me my whole life I'm now retired and 59 never married or even had a GF 😮

You are my kind of coach ❤️

Who do I want to see? Judgement based on Comfort (trust, safety to be myself) Fun (do I want to do this again? Pleasant and laughing) Attraction (chemistry etc)

I'm a level 6 thinker and have an IQ of 154, and of course this is something I'd never ever tell a guy, but let me tell you that that is not the problem since I am incredibly womanized and soft; but! at 56 it is difficult to find situations where to "find" potential serious boyfriends. I am not in for one night stands. And I would never date on line since I am highly aware of the dangers that come with that. Where is everyone that is serious but single? Am I the only one? I currently live in Italy and here the people seem scared to death of being single and I see them; either stay decade after decade in a toxic marriage and relationship or jump from one relationship to the next just to avoid being single...I actually don't mind at all to be single; I love every aspect of it but just recently I sensed that I am (finally) :) mature enough to wanna share myself with someone. A real male; above 140 IQ (intelligent) and seriously protective but still fun to be around, (maybe a detective and forensic psychologist?), probably enlightened and on tier two and stage turquoise in spiral Dynamics; enough to have left the left behind, enough to understand what liberation of mind means or wanting to learn. My experience is that here in Italy, at least; men my age are reaaaallyyyy bitter....and they all have a completely different view upon relationships than I (as a swede) has. To them it is all about convenience (you marry for convenience and then have a lover on the side; which seems extremely low conscious and close to being Islamic to me) and that to me makes me puke. To me it is all about true love. Genuine emotions. Deep conversations and sincere attention, simple stuff. Laughter and zero drama. Where the heck do I find someone like that? :)))

Thanks for the courage and insight to post this! -- A lot of coaches/content creators wouldn't have come near this topic for fear of not staying popular with viewers, but this is a valuable perspective 👍🏾🏅

I love how frank you are!!!

That and the atmosphere you grew up in

Excellent advice, Evan!

For a lot of us, it's not entirely an issue of having a bad picker. It's also things like selecting people on dating sites and having one date (so how much do you really know about them?), wanting a second date, but them not being interested in seeing you again. So maybe they had the bad picker, because they wrote you off too soon? Also, it can be due to getting to know someone who seemed like a great for a month or two, only to then realize they're not such a great fit, after all, which you wouldn't have possibly known unless you were a clairvoyant, lol

I’m so appreciative of the way you put this specific issue into perspective for me because it helps me separate the emotional aspect and allows me to tap into how I’d naturally address a person I have no personal relationship with. If no effort is made, anger and hurt is usually my first response but this helped me realize I don’t need to be upset and I can find peace in knowing I can release to find someone more fit for the position in my life. Thank you so much for your video

Took me a long time to realize unconditional love is a toxic concept that only benefits, unhealthy people. We should always have standards and yes conditions. “unConditional love” is a breeding ground for abuse.

For everyone wondering why he doesn’t ask questions. It could be that he’s very nervous and forgot everything he was going to ask you. Remember, he had to muster up the courage just to ask you out. At this point, he is on cloud nine just because you said yes. He’s making sure he doesn’t spill food on himself, burp or fart in front of you. The best thing to do on a first date is just have a good time. The most important thing is that the two of you are relaxed. It takes time to truly get to know someone. The more time you spend together the more relaxed you will be around each other. And it will become easier to ask questions.

I was Aromantic for 29 years of my life I was incabable of feeling romantic love until my identity switched and I accepted I was gay.

Are you having a relationship with your significant other or your family?

This is nonsense. Why should an average woman be entitled to a top 10% man. It’s basic math that if all women go after the top 10% of men- 90% of them will get nothing or they will have to share men. Stop giving women bad advice.

We all saw this coming with Biden 4 years ago, unfortunately

I have often felt like a "Joe Biden" on a lot of first dates, in which I liked the woman enough to at least have a second date, but she, despite listing many great qualities she really liked about me (including my looks, my kindness, my career, and or my financial stability), just didn't have "butterflies, sparks, or chemistry" for me, and turned me down, lol.

Great insight!